Urgencies are yappy little dogs

The law of urgency tells us this:

By default, whatever screams the loudest will get the quickest response.

Whatever generates the most discomfort (real or imagined) will get the most… | anniemueller.com/posts/urg…

Sitting on the balcony with the sun on my face. A bit chilly still but Absolutely Glorious.

Finished reading: The Warbler by Sarah Beth Durst 📚

Pretty writing, hometown magic vibe, slightly dark edges but happy resolution. No surprises, sweet characters. The emotional themes were hammered in about 40% more than needed, I felt. I skimmed a good bit.

I’m glad I was married, and I’m grateful to not be married anymore

I started writing a comment in reply to Derek Sivers’ latest article. After the 3rd paragraph I realized it was a blog post, not a comment. So here it is. 

“Some… | anniemueller.com/posts/im-…

Blog challenge - Music edition

🎶 This was fun. I was tagged by @mb (here’s his) and it only took me like 3 weeks to finally get it done.  🎶

What are five of your… | anniemueller.com/posts/blo…

If you don’t, somebody else will:

WorryYou can worry about everything in the world or you can let somebody else do that. There are always eager volunteers for the worry patrol.

Either way, it won’t make… | anniemueller.com/posts/if-…

Finished reading: The Valley of Horses by Jean M. Auel 📚

Well, hm. So I love how Auel describes the landscape, the scenery, the seasons, the slow but inevitable huge shifts happening in nature. And I enjoy the detail of “bushcraft” provided (even with the unbelievable coincidences that happen with finding just the right thing at just the right time). Beyond that, the characters are okay, the dialogue is so-so at best and absolutely awful at worst. And then there are the sexy times. Look, I don’t mind a little spicy action in a book, but I can only read “his manhood” so many times in one book.

Talk about the thing itself

God help me, fediverse, we have got to stop being so pedantic. 

In university, I got a degree in English. I expected lots of reading, lots of writing, and lots… | anniemueller.com/posts/tal…

Painting yourself into a corner

I spent a bit of time today downloading a portion of my 753 Kindle books from the clutches of Amazon. 753 is a dumb, dumb number. 

I haven’t read all… | anniemueller.com/posts/pai…

A good day for love

I have long thought of Valentine’s Day as a good precursor to a better day following when a lot of chocolate goes on sale. But it’s a nice concept, as… | anniemueller.com/posts/a-g…

Currently reading: If We Burn by Vincent Bevins 📚

“…they very quickly learned that mainstream journalism, embedded within a certain ideological framework and driven by the logic of capital accumulation, could rapidly reframe reality in deeply misleading ways.”

No kidding.

A good night for old cartoons | I’m sitting on the couch. 30 minutes ago I finished an episode of Broadchurch and was getting up to do the last little puttering around things before bed. Then Lily… | anniemueller.com/posts/a-g…

DNF: Neom by Lavie Tidhar 📚

Interesting world but just not the feel/mood for me right now. Couldn’t get into it. The writing is great. I might revisit this one at some point.

🥾 today’s hiking church. A path curves through the woods. Bare branched deciduous trees rise up on either side with a backdrop of light blue white sky.

Two fallen logs with moss spots lay in the woods on top of brown leaves.

Looking up into a light blue sky with a few white clouds, hovering tree tops with bare branches

A good day for sandwiches | This morning I slept until a child whispered at me: “Mom. Mom. Almost 8. You gotta take me to school.” 

Right. On it. Rolled out of bed, threw on sweats,… | anniemueller.com/posts/a-g…

🔗 Lou Plummer on People & Blogs

Enjoyed reading this interview of one of my favorite bloggers @amerpie

When things are bad, as they so very often are, I like to crawl into a little hole and stay there, curled up. I want to withdraw. Nurse my wounds,… | anniemueller.com/posts/im-…

I really like my job and I really really like the people I work with but I really really really wish the dev team would tell me at least a day or two before they release a major update with a new feature

Don’t love scrambling to add/update docs when the changes are already live.

Your personal brand makes me want to vomit anniemueller.com/posts/you…

🔗 The open web as gift economy | @tracydurnell

From the first, making things and sharing them was part of my online experience. To me, it is normal and natural to have my own website where I post things.

This is the biggest difference between how I view being online and how, say, my kids view it. And oh, what a difference it is.