i made my teens this diagram of dating options. wonder if they’ll pay any attention to it. (we like different, but it’s not all good dating material)


Haha, that’s an interesting way of breaking it down! I definitely spent too much time with dudes in the “interesting asshole” zone when I was younger.

haha this is so good, different gets me every time, I’d often end up in “fun but needy” and I just don’t have time or energy for that anymore, I pretty much always avoided competent because I have a zero asshole tolerance

@anniegreens oh yeah I have gotten real sucked in by “fun and needy” which wasn’t great as for most of my life I have not had excellent boundaries. I’m much much better now. (I also find my asshole tolerance diminishing as my boundaries improve, interesting coincidence)

I hit the “bookmark” button for this post to save for later and realized how many of my bookmarks on here are bookmarks. 😜 Keep up the great posting! 💪

@iChris gawsh thanks! Gonna probably post some really stupid stuff now just because I like to self-sabotage as a treat.

Well I don’t bookmark everything you post. Let’s not get too crazy here. 😂