From the last few hikes 🥾

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Screenshot of a Temu product description: a pet wig, with a photo of a gray and white cat wearing an awkwardly perched bob-style wig with a middle part

Finished reading: A Wizard of Earthsea by Ursula K. Le Guin 📚
Somehow I read Tombs of Atuan several years ago, but skipped this one, the first in the Earthsea series. As always, I love Le Guin’s writing, her focus on characters (i.e. character development is not central to the plot, but IS the plot), and her particular way of balancing specificity, detail, with trusting the reader to fill in the blanks. I think she gets it right every time.

Finished reading: White Tears/Brown Scars by Ruby Hamad 📚
Everything I might say about this book seems inadequate, so I’ll just say this: If you, like me, are a white woman, you should read it.

who’s doing newsletters via microblog? one of my projects for january is to move my newsletter. it’s either buttondown or microblog.

We’ve tried making Big Tech into better tech for decades. That project has been an abject failure. To make tech better, we have to make it smaller—small enough that the bad ideas, carelessness and blind spots of individual tech leaders are their problems, not everyone else’s. We need lots of tech, run by lots of different kinds of people and organizations, and we need to make it as close to costless as possible to switch from one to the other.

Currently reading: The Internet Con by Cory Doctorow 📚

Year in books for 2023

Trying this post again. Here are the books I finished reading in 2023. More than I realized.

Overall Favorites: Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow - all about love - The Wall - Debt - Remarkably Bright Creatures - The Bean Trees.

Haunting: Ghost Wall - Uncultured - I Am Nujood

Dumbest: The Silent Patient - Childhood’s End

Coziest: The Great Alone - Hobb’s Assassin books - The Cat Who Saved Books

The Silent Patient The World That We Knew Crystal Singer For the Wolf Lady Tan's Circle of Women Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk Binti I Am Pilgrim How to Read a Book The Great Alone All About Love Tiny Habits The Women's War Uncultured The Midwich Cuckoos The Obesity Code: Unlocking the Secrets of Weight Loss Leviathan Wakes (The Expanse Book 1) I Am Nujood, Age 10 and Divorced Assassin's Quest (Farseer Trilogy, #3) The Hidden Life of Trees: What They Feel, How They Communicate Royal Assassin Assassin's Apprentice The Color of Magic (Discworld, #1) The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership Shogun Childhood's End Station 11 Bird Box Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less Girl, Interrupted Exile (Forgotten Realms: The Dark Elf Trilogy, #2; Legend of Drizzt, #2) Plum Island (John Corey Book 1) The Tombs of Atuan (2) (Earthsea Cycle) The House in the Cerulean Sea The Rook The Space Between Worlds Mr. Penumbra's 24-Hour Bookstore The Expert System's Brother Remarkably Bright Creatures East Wind: West Wind I Capture the Castle Cage of Souls The Nature of Fragile Things Fifty Words for Rain The Cat Who Saved Books Verity The Tethering The Bonesetter's Daughter The Glass Castle Star Eater City of Girls: A Novel The Bean Trees F*ck Feelings: One Shrink's Practical Advice for Managing All Life's Impossible Problems Star Mother The Girl in the Green Silk Gown Five Quarters of the Orange The Wall The Last of the Moon Girls The Priory of the Orange Tree The Desert and the Sea Do The Work! Stone of Tears Observer Scythe (Arc of a Scythe, #1) The Locked Door The One Ghost Wall Women, Food, And Hormones Keto-Green 16 The Book of Koli The Parrot and the Igloo: Climate and the Science of Denial Debt, Updated and Expanded The Clan of the Cave Bear (Earth's Children, #1) Lost Under Two Moons The Bell Jar The Ghost Files Ship of Magic Quicksilver

I’m not usually ever excited about laundry but today I am. The laundry facilities in our apartment complex are finally working. After 5 months of hauling laundry across town I AM ECSTATIC to do laundry in my own building.

Finished reading: Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver 📚
First book of 2024, and what a great one to start the year. Kingsolver has such a gift for creating a voice that pulls you in and will not let you go. This one was a really tough read in some parts, intense, unflinching. But I’m never sorry to go wherever Kingsolver is taking me.

Great finds from favorite authors at my last used bookstore visit.

Stack of books on a desk including titles from Barbara Kingsolver, China Miéville, and Jeanette Walls

🥾Haven’t posted photos from hikes lately, but they’re ongoing. I really enjoy cold weather hikes.

Last year I got an external monitor (after working exclusively on a laptop for 20 years, what was I thinking??) which changed my life honestly. For Christmas I got myself an EVEN BIGGER monitor. I cannot be stopped.

Christopher Butler, The View from Here:

I have noticed that I am most happy — with myself, with my circumstances, with the world — when I am most withdrawn. That’s just me. I’m an introvert. But there’s a principle there for everyone, which is that when you are alone, you get to provide your primary sources for what matters. It’s not someone else’s voice that moves you, it’s yours.
Engaging online, for me, is an activity. It’s not a default.
…If I want to stay me, I can’t be there all the time. But if I want to grow, I can’t be disconnected forever. The balance has to be right.

Yup.

2024!

3 options when dealing with a problem:

  • Accept it. It is what it is. Out of your control. Quit resisting it, then. You’re wasting energy.
  • Take action. Make a decision. Do something. Quit waiting for someone else to fix it.
  • Be anxious. This is where you always land if you don’t choose 1 (or both) of the other 2 options

Beautiful hike along the river yesterday 🥾

We have a cute (reseller) Lego store in our downtown area. I learned you can rent the entire store out for a couple of hours, reasonable price. I wasn’t thinking about hosting a holiday party but I might have to throw a Lego party now for me and my friends. Maybe I’ll let my kids come too.

2 good reminders from my boss, on a team call yesterday:

“What we don’t do matters as much as what we do.”

“Often what helps isn’t adding more but really using what we already have.”

Related: In September, after 20+ years of freelancing, I went full-time with a longtime + favorite client (Teamup Calendar). I’m loving it. It’s really nice to focus. It still feels funny to say I have a “boss.”

Also also. There was a wrestler on an opposing team who didn’t have legs. No legs. Amazing to watch him holding his own, wrestling these kids with all their limbs. Then he won a match and the place exploded. His absolute roar of accomplishment and his team’s joy. Something I will not forget.

Also Zeke did great. He won 3/5 matches but most importantly worked hard to be ready, did his best, and had a great attitude.